Essential Estate Planning Steps for Adults with Aging Parents

Shawn Smith • January 31, 2025

Caring for aging parents often brings new responsibilities, including helping them plan for their future. Estate planning isn’t just about finances—it’s about ensuring that your parent’s wishes are honored and that their care is well-managed. Whether your parents have started the planning process or are unsure where to begin, here’s how you can help.


Step 1: Start the Conversation

Estate planning can be a sensitive topic, but it’s essential to talk openly about your parents’ wishes. Questions to ask include:

  • Do you have a will or trust in place?
  • Who do you want to handle your medical and financial decisions if you’re unable to?
  • Are your assets organized and easily accessible?


Step 2: Organize Important Documents

Help your parents gather and organize critical documents, such as:

  • Wills and trusts
  • Powers of attorney
  • Advance healthcare directives
  • Insurance policies
  • Bank and investment account information


Step 3: Address Healthcare and Living Arrangements

Ensure that your parents have clear plans for their healthcare, including a durable power of attorney for healthcare and a living will. Discuss long-term care options, such as assisted living or in-home care, and how these will be funded.


Step 4: Consult a Professional

An estate planning attorney can help ensure your parents’ wishes are legally documented and aligned with their goals. This includes minimizing taxes, avoiding probate, and protecting assets.


Step 5: Review and Update Regularly

Life circumstances and laws change, so it’s crucial to review and update your parents’ estate plan regularly to ensure it remains effective. Helping your parents navigate estate planning is a meaningful way to support them and preserve their legacy.


At The Smith Law Firm, we’re here to guide you through every step of this process. Reach out to us today to get started.

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